The Child-Centred Decision Lens is a downloadable PDF designed to support thoughtful, child-focused preparation before Family Dispute Resolution.
It provides a structured way to pause and consider how a proposed change may affect a child’s experience of stability, safety, and connection — before raising the issue in mediation.
The lens guides parents to reflect on:
how a proposal may affect a child’s routine, emotional load, and sense of belonging
what a child may need if a change were to proceed
whether a proposal is ready to be raised, and how it might best be framed
possible outcomes if a proposal is not raised, not agreed to, or accepted
The document is intended for private use only. There is no expectation that it be completed or shared.
Some parents use the Decision Lens to clarify proposals before mediation. Others find it helpful for deciding which conversations may benefit from further thought or reshaping first.
How this tool is used
This resource is designed to be used independently and at your own pace. It does not provide legal, counselling, or therapeutic advice.
The Child-Centred Decision Lens is included at no cost for mediation clients and is also available as a stand-alone purchase.